June 2013
Is "appropriation" really a bad thing? If a nonwhite person dyes their hair blonde i don't see how that's any different from a white person getting cornrows. Either way i think it's good for ppl to sample other cultures and learn something maybe
I second that you look cool af! IYO what type of shoes look good with button down and jeans? What shoes do you normally wear?
in my humble opinion, absolutely anything looks good if you wear it with confidence. actually, fuck confidence, anything looks good if YOU feel good when you wear it. one of the reasons i really don’t like sartorial queer trends is because i don’t like systems where we say ‘how’ to look or dress or do something because that means someone is always going to do it ‘wrong’ or ‘not enough’ and so long as you can say ‘how to dress well’ you’re saying there’s someone out there who is doing it unwell. and i’m proud as fuck to not really do it well
i wear the shoes i have left that i haven’t completely destroyed. one of them was on clearance at target and they’re yellow hightops i got on sale that look shitty, one is my pair of boots that are falling apart, and i found some moccasins in my closet the other day so i’m wearing those lately because i’m out of shoes and my feet hurt at work. they don’t match any of the shit i wear, but i don’t think about whether or not they match the shit i wear because all i go for is trashy and boyish and makes me not feel like a dysphoric fuck, so they fit the bill
what shoes do YOU normally wear? what makes YOU feel good and hot and sexy and all that good stuff? it doesn’t matter what i think, or what a list on the internet thinks, or what a how-to youtube video thinks. there is no right or wrong way for you wear your shoes with button down and jeans. you’re gonna look cool as fuck because you feel that way, fuck what anyone else has to say about it
you're my favorite.
<3
Duuuuuude, what do you ask for when you get your hair cut? Also where do you shop? Help a baby queer out. You just look cool af!
well, since i’ve been getting the same cut for a bit, they know the deal - talking headz in west philly, highly rec it because they’re cheap and awesome and do a fantastic job! - but i think the first time i brought in a picture of zayn malik and justin bieber and said make my hair look like they had a hair baby
i mostly shop at thrift stores because it makes shopping super fun and not a thing that causes tears, but i also work at buffalo exchange so a lot of my clothes are from there
Greetings Kade...I'm writing this as a fellow Autostraddler who adores your writing, admires your awesomeness as a person and your strength in your willingness to share parts of yourself with us in your articles. I'd indent but Tumblr doesn't let me do that. That and a question that comes to mind is what inspired your colorful (double pun) subtitle? (which merely translates to swearing incessantly XD) Many cheers and love to you :) -Spazzy
subtitle is a string of expletives specific to quebecois cursing
when i’m really really mad or really really aroused i will say things along these lines haha
Art of Persuasion
Alina Baraz
let me blow your mind
its 85 degrees i cant move and this song is perfect
ugh damn you guise i thought this was going to be the eve song but i like what i just heard nonetheless
oh my this song wow okay
